Romance in the Right Perspective
At its core, romance involves doing something to express affection in a meaningful yet unexpected way. Many would say that romance is about love, yet even love is elusive, and, if that be the case, how should one go in finding romance? Since finding the right romantic partner is becoming a difficult journey, it’s time to accept the situation and start dealing with it with the right attitude.
Complete yourself by loving yourself
Feelings convey a message, such that it lets us know on whether we love ourselves or abandoning ourselves or that others are either loving or controlling. Once you understand your feelings, move toward those feelings rather than away from them with various forms of abandonment, like staying focused in your head, judging yourself, or making someone else responsible for your feelings. Begin to invite the loving presence of your heart and consciously open to learning about loving yourself. When your heart has mellowed down to understand your feelings, it’s time to explore the innermost fears and false beliefs which you actually formulated about yourself. If you have experienced being heartbroken, lonely or helpless over someone, find out within you and understand what is causing the pain. For as long as your heart is willing to learn, the answers will come. Allow time to heal the shame, anxiety and depression, and overtime you will be able to love yourself and connect with yourself, which is the key ingredient to loving and connecting with others.
Go after your fate in life
When you begin to chart your life the way you want to live, you will discover that you’re becoming attractive to the right people who are attracted to your sense of independence and adventure.
Fantasizing your partner
A lot of women, who are hopelessly romantic, dream of fantasizing an imaginative partner, whom they perceive as the perfect guy for them. As you continue to imagine a hypothetical partner, you also begin to behave into another personality in order to meet up with your imaginative partner, to which meeting others will create false hopes as you would like them to fit into your fantasy partner. The effect will allow you to wander away from reality and from the real path in your life.
The laws of attraction is influential and powerful, and so, it tells us that in due season, the right person, who is fated to be your partner, will turn up. Decide to act by going on dates, be on the social scene, go for group dating.
If you still have a load of baggage in your emotional self, start getting rid of it, as that baggage is history, a past chapter in your life. As soon as you have learned how to open up and have come to love yourself, there should be no evidence of heaviness as you have also begun to let go of your emotional baggage.